Are you a sex addict or you just have an increased libido?Well,being a doctor, I would like to help you on this.Lets consider a benign condition,''increased libido".The dictionary meaning of Libido is one's sexual urge or sexual energy.Having physiological amount of libido is considered normal.Moreover, if your partner is sharing the same amount of libido then its perfect for a relationship.Its not abnormal to have increased urge to have sex.The research has shown that sex is good for health.The problems do occur when the level of libidos deny to match in a relationship.We dont call it as a psychiatric abnormality but just a dissent.
On the other half,we have the term sex addict.The term is personified by legends like Tiger Woods,John Terry,Bill Clinton and many more.Sex addiction is defined as an addiction towards sex such that one's social,emotional and physical behaviour is affected drastically.Consider,the recent controversy about Tiger Woods.His sexual drive ended up destroying his family,his career,his fans and most importantly himself.Apparently there is some 12 step therapy for sex addicts.The therapy runs on similar tracts of Alcohol anonymous and narcotic anonymous.
So if you are in a physical relationship,there is no need to get scared by mere mismatch of libidos unless its affecting your life like Woods,Terry and Clinton.Its just a matter of convincing your partner and nothing else.
I would like to share two contrasting scenarios which took place on 8th March,the centenary of International Women's day.One was disappointing where as the other was heart warming.As we all know,women's quota bill was supposed to get passed in RajyaSabha yesterday but all thanks to UPA,NDA and left's coalition.It seems they had prepared hard along with SP and RJD for adjourning the bill.Such a major setback for the quota drive,that too unexpected one.I feel the alliance had no idea about the roughness of the Mulayam carpet on which they were planning to saunter.
Moving to Oscars,Kathryn Bigelow became the first woman to win an Oscar for Best Director.I was amused to know that no woman had done it in 82 years history of Oscars.The other strong contender was James Cameron,the Avtar director and her ex-husband.According to me,James Cameron was the most luckiest person as he got the best stage to lose to his wife.I hope,Kathryn's locking with Oscars wont hurt Mr.Cameron rather it will erase the differences between the two.
The most difficult thing in this simple life is to start.one who starts well generally ends well.exceptions are always there.Now,at this point I've no idea what I'm supposed to start with and where it is supposed to be intended.I am seeing a philosopher erupting out of me.Suddenly I feel,I have started looking at life in a different perspective.